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Lieutenant Dan Choi Urges Repeal of Gay Policy in Armed Forces

Posted by AC Team on Thursday, 08 April 2010.

Lt. Dan Choi was arrested April 20, 2010 after he chained himself with other gay rights activists to the gates of the White House to protest the policy on forbidding gays and lesbians from serving openly in the Armed Forces.

Special to
AsianConnections.com from
New America Media

AN INTERVIEW WITH
LIEUTENANT DAN CHOI

by Aaron Glantz

In his State of the Union address to Congress, President Obama promised to end the 'don't ask, don't tell' policy, which forbids gays and lesbians from serving openly in the Armed Forces. Three months later, efforts to repeal the policy continue to languish in Congress. But when Lt. Dan Choi, an openly gay New York National Guardsman, wanted to protest the policy, he didnt take it to Capitol Hill, but instead chained himself to a White House fence, where he was arrested March 18. Choi spoke with NAM editor Aaron Glantz about his arrest and his opposition to dont ask, dont tell.

Why did you chain yourself to the gates of the White House?

Pres. Obama has the authority right now to demonstrate leadership. The president has made clear that he wants to see dont ask, dont tell repealed and the only way you can see repealing this through Congress is for the president to take executive leadership. We needed to make that message loud and clear.

In March, you came out as openly gay on the Rachel Maddow show, but now you have been recalled to drill with your unit. How is that possible?

In June, I was put on trial [for violating 'dont ask, dont tell'] and they recommended discharge. But now its been nine months, 10 months, and I have been recalled to drill with my unit. Our unit is going to deploy and they need experienced leadership. Ive been deployed to Iraq before. I graduated from West Point with a degree in Arabic and I speak Arabic with a degree of proficiency. There has been no disruption in my unit [as a result of my coming out]. It is certainly proof that our country can deal with the repeal just like all the other countries in NATO. But in the last nine months, hundreds of soldiers have been kicked out for doing just what I did. The policy must end.

Recently, the Joint Chiefs of Staff testified before Congress and, with the exception of Admiral Mullen, the Chair of the Joint Chiefs, each of them said they had reservations about repealing 'dont ask, dont tell.' What went through your mind when you saw them testify?

Being a racial minority, I wondered if those same sentiments about why they had those fears - I wonder, now that we are 60 years across from racial segregation in the military, if you heard those same things about a racial minority, would we have that same kind of reaction? It was insulting. From what I know on the ground, not on a political level but as a military person with personal experience, I know that those things are totally unfounded. But the reason theyre allowed to make these political overtures based on fears and untruths is that the president hasnt shown any leadership.

When you talk about racial desegregation in Harry Trumans time, it was leadership that came from the highest military leader. Youre hearing all these incredulous things not only from the lower-level commanders but also from the Joint Chiefs and the retired generals [and] thats absolutely false. This kind of confusion is rooted in a lack of leadership.

Do you see this resistance in the high level of the military brass against allowing gays to serve openly in the military?

Its not outright resistance. You havent heard people say, 'Absolutely not,' but they express their fears, they express their doubts, they express things that I have never heard from military people. [Theyre] expressing this kind of insecurity and discomfort in such a cowardly way. Theyre saying that their actions must be based on these fears, and thats not in keeping with any of the military traditions and for any military leader to allow that. If, indeed, this is a clarion call from the president that this is the right thing to do, then why would you allow any of these wrongheaded things to go out? So as someone in the military who is currently serving, its an insult because its so [counter to] the truth. And some would say that its because of the generation gap, that these are the old guards. They say those things and its obvious that this is a factor.

Are your parents supportive of what youre doing?

[Laughs] Well, thats another interview. My dad is a Southern Baptist minister. My mother is very conservative and they were both supportive of Proposition 8 and it [my being gay] was very difficult for them. I only came out to them 15 months ago, and when I did they had difficultly understanding the concept of what that means. So it was difficult, but I think deep down in their hearts it was just because they didnt want me to face the kind of discrimination they did. Theyve gone through discrimination because of their language barriers, because of their immigration status, because of their race, and they didnt want the next generation to go through the same kind of pain. I explained to them that I dont want people in future generations to have to lie to get into the military, I dont want them to have to be unequal. If they love somebody, they should be able to get married to them. They shouldnt be fired for being who they are.

You know, its funny, my dad always said I was going to be a spokesperson for minority rights. I dont think he meant gay rights. I think he meant the Korean community, but its the same kind of discrimination. And its going to require the same kind of determination from our community and from our generation to see that this is a moral fight.

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NAM Editor Aaron Glantz is author of The War Comes Home: Washington's Battle Against America's Veterans (UC Press)

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